feat: use hasql-pool-0.9, add db-pool-max-lifetime (fixes #2638)

- db-pool-acquisition-timeout is no longer optional, defaults to 10s
- new option db-pool-max-lifetime limits the maximal lifetime of a
  postgresql connection, defaults to 30m

test/io/configs/no-defaults.config

@@ -5,7 +5,8 @@ db-extra-search-path = "public, test"
 db-max-rows = 1000
 db-plan-enabled = true
 db-pool = 1
-db-pool-acquisition-timeout = 10
+db-pool-acquisition-timeout = 30
+db-pool-max-lifetime = 3600
 db-pre-request = "please_run_fast"
 db-prepared-statements = false
 db-root-spec = "openapi_v3"