feat: use hasql-pool-0.9, add db-pool-max-lifetime (fixes #2638)

- db-pool-acquisition-timeout is no longer optional, defaults to 10s
- new option db-pool-max-lifetime limits the maximal lifetime of a
  postgresql connection, defaults to 30m

test/io/configs/expected/aliases.config

@@ -5,7 +5,8 @@ db-extra-search-path = "public"
 db-max-rows = 1000
 db-plan-enabled = false
 db-pool = 10
-db-pool-acquisition-timeout = ""
+db-pool-acquisition-timeout = 10
+db-pool-max-lifetime = 1800
 db-pre-request = "check_alias"
 db-prepared-statements = true
 db-root-spec = "open_alias"